His Needs Her Needs by Willard F Harley Available Online
You thought that your marriage will be as happy as it was at the start? Lot of people feel disappointed after few years of their marriage. Both partners soon realize that the person they have married is not the one they have dated. That’s when problems start to show up. Willard’s book “His Needs Her Needs” deals with the root causes for marriage breakdowns and offers unique methods to prevent marriage failures. Willard Harley wrote this book after completing a 13-week marriage course in 1978.
As a successful marriage counsel, Willard had a collection of marriage recordings that were used to publish the book “His Needs Her Needs”. Harley claims that marriages break down because deep-seated needs are not fulfilled. Couples become unsatisfied with their marriage and look for comfort with another person beside their partner. Aware of that, Harley in his book “His Needs Her Needs” tries to help readers to understand how important is to support and to understand one to another. Whether you had a good or bad day, having someone just to listen you and to understand you makes a difference in a marriage.
Dr. Harley talks about the ten emotional needs both men and women have.“His Needs Her Needs” helps readers to identify which needs are more or less important to their partner and to learn how to make compromises. Only when the emotional needs are fully satisfied, the marriage can last. “His Needs Her Needs” is a simple guide on how to stay passionate with your partner and to eliminate marriage problems that can lead divorce. According to Harley, the basic needs of every woman include: intimate conversations, honesty, financial supports and family commitments. Where as, if you want to make your men happy, then keep in mind the 5 basic needs like: sexual fulfillment, physical attractiveness, domestic support, admiration and recreational companionship. If all these needs are well balanced, then you have no need to fear for your marriage.
Dr. Harley included a special section in his book “His Needs Her Needs” dedicated to those that have been cheated. It teaches the readers how to make their relationship solid once again. A marriage is not a simple thing, and you should not give up when the problems start to emerge. Save what can be saved. Harley provides questionnaires and unique methods that can help couples to reconstruct their marriage and to find mutual enjoyment that will last forever. “His Needs Her Needs” has a purpose to help people to keep the loving relationship and to eliminate any extramarital affairs. Find this book online and spice up your marriage.
